Mothers of high-risk newborns have found some or all of the following suggestions helped them create and stick to a routine when expressing their milk for days, weeks, or months:
Stick to a schedule
Many mothers find their milk lets down more quickly and they soon get larger amounts of milk when they pump at about the same times every day. But don't be concerned if there is some variation in the schedule from day to day.
Set a timer
It's easy for time to slip away and for pumping sessions to get a late start. It's helpful to set an oven timer, a digital watch, or cell phone to remind you when the next session is to start. If a session is delayed, pump a little earlier next time.
Chart pumping sessions
Keep track of when you pump, how long you pump, and how much milk you get by using a simple checklist chart to note pumping sessions. Keeping a record of pumping sessions will help you pick up any drop in number of sessions, time spent pumping, or volume of milk obtained, so you can make changes before a real problem develops. There are free Apps for your phone that can help track this information.
Get comfortable
You are more likely to continue a routine if you pump in a comfortable, yet convenient, spot. Have a snack and a drink in reach. Listening to relaxing music has been shown to increase breast milk production. You could distract yourself by talking with someone over a speakerphone or watching TV. You can also use the hands-free pumping equipment and do other activities at the same time as you are pumping.
Create a ritual
Follow the same routine for most or all of your pumping sessions. Your ritual might include:
- Pumping in a certain place
- Putting warm compresses on your breasts and doing breast massage before pumping
- Dimming lights
- Turning on soft music
- Using relaxation methods, such as slowing your breathing and imagining a beautiful waterfall that turns to milk after a minute or two of pumping
Include your baby in the ritual
You might want to look at a picture of your baby or breathe in the scent of a blanket or cap they have worn as you pump. Some mothers listen to audio of their babies' cries when they begin to pump. Others simply think of their baby while pumping. Skin-to-skin contact with your baby (called kangaroo care) in the NICU has been found to increase milk production.
Plan ahead for night sessions
Nighttime pumping sessions will seem less annoying if the pump and collection kit are set up and ready to go when it's time to wake up to pump. Some mothers save steps at night by placing bottles in an insulated cooler with an appropriately sized freezer pack to keep milk chilled correctly until morning.
Be positive
It's easy to get discouraged, bored, or frustrated when pumping at least 8 times, or more than 100 minutes, in 24 hours for day after day. This is especially so if you are having any trouble making milk. There may be moments when you'd like to throw the breast pump out the window. Know that such feelings are normal, but don't throw that pump away. It's an expensive machine, and it's allowing you to provide the most valuable food your baby can get. Remember, by providing your high-risk baby with this exceptional milk, you are a vital member of your baby's healthcare team. It also maintains your milk supply so that you can bond with your baby through nursing when they come home from the hospital.